Thursday, October 25, 2012

Just Say It!

I saw him sitting there…the young Asian guy with an earphone in one ear and head down focusing intently on his cell phone.  I quickly looked away. Surely God must have been instructing me to speak with someone else but where was that person? I looked around as I walked toward the bus stop where he sat waiting. I even glanced behind me too almost hoping to see someone else less engaged, someone I thought seemed more available for conversation.  

Confessedly, I felt my steps toward the bus stop starting to slow. I was lost in thought wondering what might be the right way to use this opportunity to witness since I felt an overwhelming urge to do so.

Okay, I know.

Some of you will say, “ Shouldn't you always have the urge to tell someone about Jesus? Is that not our duty as believers, so what’s so hard about this situation?” Still others will say, “Since you feel ‘led’ to share your faith with him, you definitely need to be obedient!”

SIGH!

 “I can do this! I am not perfect but that is exactly why I need to share with him about Jesus. That Jesus can love me in spite of my flaws and my insecurities is enough reason for me to ‘shout Him out’!”  I didn't know what this guy needed but I bet whatever it was that God was still the only Source. Then came the hard part, how could I get the conversation started? Was I supposed to ask him if I was the only one who listened to The Light 103.9 FM (the gospel station in NC) and sang out loud even if my windows were down? As I write this I can’t help but think that he could have been listening to that same station on his phone (covers face). Was I supposed to just ask if he was a Christian and just take the conversation from there?

This is the trouble some of us face as Christians, that is, having confidence in God to give us the right words to say in every situation and being obedient enough to open our mouths and just say them! We spend too much time allowing self to get in the way of God’s work as it tries to control, manage and orchestrate how and when God’s work is to be done rather than just identifying what God is doing and accepting His invitation to join in.

As the bus pulled up, I realized I had not seized the opportunity. I could not understand it. I had grown up being involved in tract ministry, inviting other young people to church and testifying to my belief in God. What had changed, if anything? I have always been able to speak with my friends about God and if they know me and still recognize my love and commitment to God (all the while being an imperfect being) so then what was the reason to be afraid of a stranger.
I realized (though there was nothing that could excuse my disobedience) that on many occasions I was in the company of people wanting to share their faith but their approach was so distasteful that I wouldn't be surprised to learn that many were 'put off' by the encounter.
This experience was enough for me to evaluate myself and how I share my faith with others.

What experiences have you had with sharing your faith? What challenges/victories have you had? 

Comment below:)

Stay tuned for the next blog post! We will talk about witnessing and strategies to overcome some of the possible challenges as we share our faith.

I will leave you with this, “But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect…"
(1 Peter 3:15 NIV)

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Until next time (smile)
EJ

2 comments :

  1. i haven't been sharing my faith as much as I probably should and could have. The truth is I feel as if I am not good enough to tell anyone about God, because I myself need to work on my relationship with Him. Knowing that I'm not where I should be, there is some sense of inadequacy about my effectiveness in witnessing to someone.

    It is even compounded if I have to witness to someone who knows me, cause I just don't think that my light is shining as brightly as it should be, which may lead the person to question if I actually do believe that which I am telling them.In regards to strangers, I honestly fear their reaction or what they may ask me (something I may not be able to answer).

    Still, I do think that if God is the One leading me to witness to someone, He will lead and guide me as to what to say.

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    1. Hi Monique,
      We all struggle with a sense of inadequacy because the truth is we are all inadequate when it comes on to the things of God we are not able to function efficiently in this arena without the help of the Holy Spirit that thanks heavens lives within us! I know we always feel as though we are not good enough because we have sin in our lives but until the day we die we will always be working towards the mark that is Christ so we will never be perfect. The question to ask ourselves is whether we are nurturing the sin/sinful actions etc in our lives and whether we are so connected to them that we sin presumptuously. If this is the case we need to ask God to help us as some bad habits and behaviors are harder to break than others because of the fight with our flesh. If you feel as though there is something in particular that is bothering you then turn to your God who not only loves you but who will empower you unto deliverance. In the same breath we really shouldn’t silence or testimony because I am convinced that we have it for a reason. I pray that God will take apprehension and everything else away from us so that we bolding share our faith with others. I know I need to focus on not the person with whom I am speaking and how they will feel but to focus on doing what God would have me do and let Him take care of the rest. I know some conversations about our faith takes extra knowledge and this is where we have to study to show ourselves approved so that we are knowledgeable about not just our faith but what others might be convinced of. Even in this let us not be intimidated when God tells us to speak (I am working on it just like you) because God is able to give supernatural knowledge that will win someone over without the need for all the natural knowledge that we may obtain. Thanks for posting again I look forward to more dialogue with you!

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